Autism Turns 21

It is hard for us to guess what’s on your mind.
We question you until you answer yes.
Outside of family, the world is not so kind.

Sometimes it’s twenty questions until we find
what triggers you. We understand your stress,
but the family needs to know your state of mind.

You are now of legal age and fully grown
standing six foot one and big as a house.
We give you hugs. The world is not so kind.

We know your music playlist calms you down
and steadies your nerves in solitude. Distress
starts up when conversation prods your mind.

Cold, indifferent people are not inclined
to help: it’s not my problem; it’s not my mess.
Outside of family, the world can be unkind.

For you, my grandson, if the future is predefined
by the past, please know you’ll always have our blessing.
The family will embrace whatever is on your mind.
Outside of us, the world is not so kind.